Friday, June 22, 2007

Minus a friend

Going thru a phase in my life now, where i feel most people have been before. Hurt by a friend. It's been such a low point in my life, and i feel like a fool. Imagine not speaking to someone you're used to speaking with every now and then. It sure feels awkard when i pick up my phone and see her name but can't dial her number. I'm really hurt, but i guess it's something i have to deal with the way i know best.
Going thru this phase, i've come to learn that irrespective of whatever happened and to whom it happened with, i have to forgive and forge ahead; but she's not making it any easier (Would talk about it in my next post).
I've come to learn that Forgiveness is Letting go of the hurt and pain, without any resentment and letting nature take its course in forgetting. I'm ready to move on, but i can't forget the whole situation just like that. I sincerely need God's help like right now. Have a great weekend everyone.

7 comments:

Ugo Daniels said...

SHit happens all the tym my broda. Just hope you have the strenght to endure the hurts and pains it brings with it.

Do have a lovely weekend too!

Nkem said...

I hear you dear. Been there as well. About 5 years ago I lost 2 of my closest friends. They chose to listen to what people said and didn't trust me. Ever since, we stopped talking and now we barely say 'hello' after 7 years of friendship. Yes, it was really hard, but I guess I'm happy I got to know the real them.
New friends are to come across your way. Just keep your arms open ;)

classybabe said...

I think many of us have been disappointed by friends,it can really hurt because you expect them to have your back.But it's better to have few friends you can count on,than a whole lot of friends that wont add anything positive to your life.For sure with time, you might end up forgiving the person but with experience i have found out things are usually not the same again.
Have a great weekend though

Lady A said...

Bless you heart. But remember, the key is to consitantly thanking God to heal your heart. It takes time...it doesn't happen over night. And don't dwell on the scenerio or replay the situation that happened either. You'll be fine, well all been there hon.
Take it easy.

yankeenaijachick said...

U are not alone sola.......look at my post of reflection and you would see it's almost the same story. Keep on doing good. It pays in the long run.

later ..........nice blog.

Pink-satin said...

good u have a forgiving heart!i know that awkward feeling u get when u are not talking to pple who u are used to talking to!it is well..nice page

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